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Dina Gets Real

Former 'RHONJ' star sets record straight

By Corey Levitan Oct 24, 2011 9:58AM
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The cashmere-lined gloves are off as Dina Manzo bashes her former TV show, "The Real Housewives of New Jersey."

 

"It's a shame this TV show used to be about our lives and now some lives are just about a TV show," Manzo blogs on her website.  "That's not how it should be."

 

The 39-year-old -- who remained a hot-button topic on the reunion show  -- left the Bravo series after a blowout with Danielle Staub in the second season.

 

"I really wanted to walk away from all of the toxic behavior," Manzo writes. "I was not into ganging up on anyone and I was no longer obligated to talk about Danielle so the best thing for me to do was stay away."

 

In the most intriguing part of the blog, Manzo appears to side with Teresa Giudice in her feud with Manzo's own sister. (Caroline Manzo feels totally maligned by Guidice's new cookbook, "Fabulicious," which jokes that Caroline "is as Italian as the Olive Garden.")

 

"If this is all about a joke in a book (and [Teresa] assured me it was) that's not enough for me to hate the mother of my God daughter and a friend of 15 years," Dina writes. "Was it necessary to write that stuff in her book? Probably not but I don't think it was written with malice either."

 

Dina doesn't go into detail about what happened between her and "certain family members." However, Caroline believes it's because she didn't show enough support for Dina's new HGTV party-planning show, "Dina's Party."

 

Dina adds: "I feel bad that my relationship with my sister and her family is strained, but I can assure you that one day it will be back to the way it was."

Dina wishes the housewives could all "lift each other up instead of trying to tear one another down" and "showcase what women are capable of."

 

She adds: " Unfortunately, not sure what the ratings on that would be … so I doubt that will happen."

 

183Comments
Oct 24, 2011 1:14PM
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Just because you are family, doesn't mean you should disrespect each other. Like Caroline said...we have no choice what kind of family we are born into. Every individual deserves respect and compassion. Some more than others. Maybe some people think that because they are family it gives them rights to being cruel, envious and outright disrespectful. I think that if a member of their family is upset about something, and they can't seem to work it out, then they should leave the show until matters are resolved. We don't need to see more hate and disrupt in families. We have enough of our own. I think when a person deliberately causes problems on the show, they should be replaced. I think that Teresa should be removed after season 4. I also think that all families have problems and I think that BRAVO should not exploit it for ratings. BRAVO should rise above it. People like Teresa will look for any opportunity to reek havoc and make the show all about her. Who is the grownup? 
Oct 24, 2011 1:10PM
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I've never watched a single whole episode of any of the "Housewives" shows.  I hate these shows. Anything that I've seen has been in the previews and as I am surfing past the channel.  The people in them are all phonies and it makes me sick that they get paid for behaving badly on camera.  It's worse that some of them try to parlay notoriety into real fame. 

 

Top Chef, Top Chef Masters and Top Chef: Just Desserts are the only shows I watch on Bravo now.

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Dina,

You have always been a classy lady with true common sense.  I have the greatest respect for you.  It's great to see that nothing has changed.  I used to think that Caroline was there with you, but I have lost quite a bit of that respect for her this past season.  Karen said Theresa was not "Mother Theresa" in a cute joking manner with no malice intended, but she needs to let Caroline in on that same observation...She is not perfect and she is coming off more and more acting like she thinks she is.  These people can laugh at the others, but they can't laugh at themselves.  This is sad and a great loss for them to find more joy in life!

Keep up your good work and try to get Caroline to come back to earth and her old self where she could laugh at herself and protect her family, not fight with them.

Love your Godchild, but don't abandon your sister for her....try to help her get back to reality!

Oct 24, 2011 1:09PM
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You can't really be serious? If this is how the women in New Jersey act I will stay on the turn pike and cruise on through this state. I believe there is a song written by another RHWONY that would fit these women in New Jersey, the Countess's song "Money won't buy you class". I have never seen such back biting and, let's face it Teresa, illiteracy in all my life. You all are a poor example of how Italian women act, so please don't try to represent me. Caroline, really? Do you really need this show to self promote? It would seem to me Caroline, Jacqueline, and Dina would all have better things to do with their day and their time than to be such drama queens in a low budget soap opera. I can see Teresa, Melissa and Kathy were cut out for this low class soap being nuevo riche.

 

So happy Dina got a clue and moved away from the not so lime light drama, Caroline and Jacqueline follow her lead. You will be better as a family to do so. You don't need this type of drama and the pay couldn't really be that great.

Oct 24, 2011 1:08PM
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hmm yet you are here reading the article and blogging! Interesting!

 

Oct 24, 2011 1:05PM
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No one with a life cares. I don't know who the hell this person is becuase I have family, hobbies, and a life.

 

If you watch 'Real Housewives of anything you are a "Real Loser."

Oct 24, 2011 1:03PM
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I don't know if Teresa meant it as a joke or not. Maybe she didn't and when she realized the mistake she made she started using "joke" as an excuse. Yes they gave and took funny and harsh comments about each other but by next season 80% of what was said will be forgotten by the viewers. But what Teresa wrote is permanent you can't erase it with the wind nor was it written in sand. That to me is the cruelest "joke" anyone can do!

Dina blood is thicker than water you should of been Switzerland on this one!

Oct 24, 2011 1:00PM
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I have been watching this show, only for the fact that that  Italian family where involved. ( BEFORE ANY THING FORGIVE MY SPELLING, ENGLISH IS NOT MY MAJOR.) I'm absolutely uncomfortable to see the way they behave . I'm not name  any names. I only will tell you that Italian family, rich or poor, educated or not, do not behave with such nastiness and malignity and wickedness. I understand it's a show, but one should never forget that family, does not matter what,  should  be united . Your problem is to blame on   one person,  her ignorance  has no limit and make her  mouth  spit out some sentences they should be ignored. I hope you all understand which one I'm talking about and start to ignore  any remark she makes about any thing. And Please....Please, redeem yourself and show and show what lovely Italian family are made of.  I'm 83 , and going back  in my memory line they is  unaltered love for all my past family. make pace, with with every one,  and may God bless you !!!!!!!!!!
Oct 24, 2011 1:00PM
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To the person that said Dina should re-evaluate her friendship with Teresa, I could not agree with you more! They weren't on speaking terms until recently so Dina should know what's up. Caroline didn't give a rat's a$$ about the "italian" crap, but she was perturbed and rightly so that Teresa used a "COOKBOOK" to diss her son. WHAT A FRIGGIN' IDIOT that jealous wolf man looking LOSER is! The fact that Dina can even stand to be around her speaks VOLUMES to me about her character, Godmother or not! BLOOD is thicker than BULL and I would never side with non blood over my sister. Unh unh, no way! I hope with everything in me that Dina and Caroline can work things out ASAP because belive you me, her and Teresa WILL fall out again. Why? Because Dina is attractive and smart, Teresa is NOT, so you catch my drift?
Oct 24, 2011 12:57PM
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Teresa is an uneducated, classless woman, who should star in the remake of "BACK TO SCHOOL".  We'll see how brillant she is when she's on Celebrity Apprentice...lmao!
Oct 24, 2011 12:57PM
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I'm not trying to be mean or belittle anyone, but I think part of the problem with Teresa is her education or lack there of.  I think a lot of the times Teresa takes things the wrong way is because she doesn't understand certain words or phrases.  Teresa, I'm sorry, but you do seem to come off as ignorant and some of the things that come out of you're mouth seem to come from someone that just doesn't know any better.  A little advice, stop and think and take time to understand what someone is saying to you before you respond with an attack.  Also, you complain about  Melissa copying you all the time.  Have you ever heard the phrase, "imitation is the sincerest form of flattery"...think about it...she likes you're style and taste so much that she chose it for herself.
Oct 24, 2011 12:56PM
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omg...i use to like Teresa and Joe, now i think there both ****s.

Teresa is jealous obviously...! Mellissa is prettier, has a much nicer home, has an honest hard working husband...and sexier then hers, Mellissa doesn't dress her kids like circus performers. Teresa should have spent a little more time time reading when she was in school, rather than fixing her hair and make up!

she speaks like an uneducated new money look at me I'm fabulous want to be !!maybe if Joe stopped smoking weed and drinking all the time things might improve...has anyone else noticed that when Joe is wasted his face turns red and his left eyes goes a little lazy ? the red is the wine, the eye thing is the weed..even his own daughter asked him once in the kitchen why his eyes were red....

I bet Teresa had a Camano or firebird with big hair and nails when she was young...and chewed gum ! she should have been on "jerseylicious" or "jerseyshore"...that's her level of class...!

she was in the same seat as Daniel, when she denied everything she was accused of. so everyone lied and made up stories...except for classless Teresa?

come on now...!!!

I am from Jersey and half Italian....she is a disgrace. I hope people see through her phony personality....and "it was a joke" bullcrap...that was no joke..

caroline always had her hairy back(its got to be)...lol

I can just see Teresa 15 years from now, driving a 2 dr white beat up coupe deville with vogue wheels, huge teased hair, long nails, divorced, bigger fake boobs, wearing what's left of her 15 year old wardrobe...living in her brothers basement alone...cause her dishonest hubby took of with the last of the money..

 

I guess you can say she makes me sick....and we liked her. She and Daniell would now make perfect bff..

 

i feel bad for her kids...!

Oct 24, 2011 12:55PM
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I love Dina's headband but she needs to rethink the jewelry. As far as what she blogged I agree with what she said except for siding with Teresa Giudice. There's nothing good in Teresa. She went around flashing money in front of a camera while other American's are suffering then plays the sympathy card. I'm not buying any of it. As far as her family it will work out. It always does. Blood is thicker than water even when the water gets murky.
Oct 24, 2011 12:50PM
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Are you all kidding me?  I have seen comments on this site about class and it makes me wonder if I watched the same show?  I watched exactly 10 minutes of RHWNJ and was appalled.  Uneducated, spoiled, bitter, entitled and classless.  This franchise is part of the dumbing down of America.  I remember when I could count on BRAVO to have shows that took some intelligence to follow and promoted the arts on TV.  Now it is a channel that I wish I could delete from my cable plan.

Oct 24, 2011 12:47PM
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Oh my, where do you begin !!!! I was apalled at Teresa's behavior.Who does she think she is  ? Caroline has more "CLASS" in her little finger then Teresa has in her whole body.

I have been a fan of the New Jersey HW'S since their show began more so then  any in the franchise,that said where has Teresa gone ,I mean the one we watched the first year? Maybe it is all the money mess,Joe who knows,but she is one spoiled BRAT and needs to take a long look at herself. She keeps  the pot stirred with everyone. She has a pattern going family,freinds my my. She should be so embarrassed and hitting her knees to beg everyone to forgive her.

Dina I understand sister's do not always agree,get along so they pass and re-pass for a time. You need to mend now. I think Kathy and Melissa are wonderful as are their husbands and children. See Teresa not all about you.

To quote William Shakespeare,,,,,,,,LOVE ALL,TRUST A FEW. DO WRONG TO NONE...

Oct 24, 2011 12:47PM
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This woman is so delusional. The show has always been the same, regardless of the city. Dina knew that going in. She wasn't portrayed in the light she wanted, so she quit. She sparked just as much controversy with her mouth and actions as any other housewife. All Bravo did was roll the cameras. As for Theresa’s comment about Caroline in her cookbook, is Dina so dense that she can’t see past the “joke” and see Theresa for who she really is? How about all the other nasty things Theresa has said about everyone, and her actions toward others. Get a clue Dina Gold-digger!

Oct 24, 2011 12:46PM
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I'm the husband that started watching this show because my wife loved it. Over time, I have come to my own conclusions. It is so apparent that teresa and her family are jealous of her brothe joe and his accomplishments. Teresa is probably one of the dumbest brunettes I have ever seen on tv. She always stirs the pot and she's pretty much wrong all the time. Her husband is complete poison to her and the entire family. This show is going to ruin all of their relationships with each other, unless it's just an act for the money??? Teresa needs to leave her husband and shut her mouth.
Oct 24, 2011 12:45PM
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Dina,

Kuddos to you, I watched that show I'm afraid to say awhile and toward the end of this last season I stopped because all the show turned into was terrible miscommunication, women tearing down each other joking or not, and no resolution. Your NEW show is fabulous and truly showcases what your career entails. The other show glossed over the details of your career. This show highlights your gift AND YOU ARE FABULOUS.

Oct 24, 2011 12:45PM
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Caroline and Kathy are the only two real women on this show. I have yet to hear them brag about what they have, while Teresa and her sis-in-law are always throwing comments out about how much money they have, the material possessions they have and how 'rich' their lives are. PLEASE!!! Jealousy makes for an ugly facial mask.
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