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Derek Hough Attacks 'Dance Moms'

'Dancing With the Stars' pro calls show 'child abuse'

By Corey Levitan Feb 22, 2012 10:13AM
hollywoodlife.com

"Dancing With the Stars" pro Derek Hough is hopping mad at "Dance Moms," Lifetime's hit series about dance instructor Abby Lee Miller and the group of competitive tykes she emotionally eviscerates every week in front of their foulmouthed mothers.


"I'm sorry but this Dance mom show is straight up abusive," Hough tweeted on Tuesday, Feb. 12. "Kids Run!!!!!!! It ain't right. Child abuse isn't right. I'm livid right now."


Last month, actress Katherine Heigl also came down on the show, calling it "demeaning" and "belittling" in an iVillage blog post.


Hough's grammatically iffy tirade continued over his next two tweets: "Theres a difference between being strict and being abusive… I believe in discipline and a strong work ethic. But there is nothing productive about screaming and making little girls cry over being on the wrong foot."


Check out a representative clip for yourself:

Honestly, if celebrities think that protesting the show will guilt its producers into acting more responsibly, they should think again. These are the guys who recently armed their young stars with realistic fake guns. In fact, according to the Hollywood Reporter, the producers are so happy with their controversial status quo, they plan to spin not one but two shows off the premise: "Dance Moms: Miami" and "Ice Moms."


For her part, Miller recently defended her shocking teaching methods on "The View," basically admitting that much of what we see is staged.


“You, out of all the people here, know about reality television, for number one," she told Elisabeth Hasselback. "You’re seeing the climax, you’re seeing it build, and that’s what the producers want.”


"Dance Moms" airs Tuesdays at 9 p.m. ET/PT on Lifetime.

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Feb 22, 2012 12:37PM
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I am fascinated by this show because my own daughter who is now 27 yrs old,danced her entire life and learned from one studio.I can't tell you how many times I had to get into it with the owner/teacher!!! It's wonderful for our children to have strict lessons and to be accountable(valuable lessons) however, you can take it too far and thats where the damage occurs. My daughter had a dance class after dinner one night a week and as I was in the waiting room,I hear the owner scream at her about her stomach bulging a little and that she better not see that anymore.I saw RED!! I went into the class and screamed at her that my daughter just had dinner and that it is perfectly normal for the belly to bulge slightly.I didnt appreciate her doing this to the girls as her own daughter died from anorexia!!
Feb 22, 2012 12:37PM
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This show is very entertaining! So, let's state the obvious, don't you know that negative,"planted"st​atements from celebrities will only draw the potential viewer to watch Dance Moms?  I cannot believe everyone here is that gullible! This is a loosely-scripted program, Abby Lee is over-the-top as well as the "Moms"and it is outrageous fun!! These actresses are in the national spot light with a hot show. Abby is a smart business woman and all of these women have you believing they hate each other..LMAO  Don't Believe Everything You Watch on T.V.!! 
Feb 22, 2012 12:30PM
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As I suspected, because of the extreme abuse and crassness of this show, that it was staged to some degree.  But even so, why subject those children to this.  And the moms letting the teacher talk to them that way--have they no pride or self-respect??  Ain't enough money or fame in the world to expose my child to this treatment--a child should know that you do the best that you can in life, not be BETTER than someone else.  How do you live up to that?
Feb 22, 2012 12:29PM
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I watched this show for a short while until it was all the same bs every week and all I saw was screaming and yelling.  But then again, I went to a high school football game and at halftime, the boy's coach was screaming and cussing at the boys even worse than Miller does to these girls.  So, is it really any different than real life, or is it just something we like to ignore until it is in our faces?
Feb 22, 2012 12:29PM
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As a retired dance school owner, Abby Lee is nothing more than La Pimpessa to a bunch of slime ball producers who see these little girls as nothing more than dollar signs. Abby Lee can make all the excuses she likes. But, she's no dance teacher. She's a pimpessa for profiteering producers. I'd bet anything that these slime ball producers would never allow their own daughters or granddaughters to be spoken to by an Abby Lee pimpessa for profit would they?

 

Then, there's the matter of the little girls or should I say automatons? Watch them "dance". A puppet can do as well. They don't dance for any reason other than to please Abby Big Mouth Classless Lee. No dance teacher of any class I ever knew up to and including some of Broadway's biggest stars like Ben Vereen and Gwen Verdon would ever demean their students as La Pimpessa does.

 

Dance is an art. Not a footrace competition. That's all Abby Lee is really teaching her students. Ten points for a front walkover. 20 points for a triple fouette turn and God help the little girl who can't master acrobatic aerials like an Olympic champion.

 

I've watched these little girls perform. That's all they are doing...performing. Ritualistic competitive performances. Not a single one of them has a clue that dance is an art form. Not some mindless exercise in competitive sport.

 

As for Abby Lee, she can muster all the excuses for her assisting slime ball profiteering producers using these little girls as dollar signs but it still reeks of exploitation.

 

As for the mothers of these little girls, they act like oversexed high school cheerleaders on a graduation night out. Grow up and act like mothers.

Feb 22, 2012 12:28PM
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Some commenters ask why parents would subject their children, good question, I certainly would not, but then I am a grandmother of 70, not a mother.  I know what my daughter aspires to as a mother, and I am not so sure it was the same things I aspired to when my children were young and the age of these girls.  I think the whole mentality of society (parentally of course) is entirely different from my generation.  The end result to the kids will nonetheless, be the same as any generation abusive or exploitative aspect.  The teacher leaves alot to be desisred, not like any dance teacher I ever knew--first she needs a good diet and exercise program before getting up to think about teaching children to dance.  The rest of her attitude is unacceptable for teaching children anything worthwhile!

Feb 22, 2012 12:28PM
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Oh, I don't know.  What is wrong with a tough task master?  The importance of competition and high expectations for these kids will later come to their aid as they approach the Serengetti that is life.  I have heard of movements to remove 'F' from report cards because of self esteem concerns, and athletic leagues where everyone gets a trophy.  Where are the lessons in that? I saw an episode where the African American child had a panic attack before her competition, but was able to go out and perform.  That has value.  She will be able to draw on that strength and willpower later and apply it to many other aspects of her life.  These kids also are winning the majority of their competitions.  They are learning the relationship between hard work and success. 

 

Also, remember that there are alternative dance schools in Pittsburgh...

Feb 22, 2012 12:26PM
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i am a certified Dance Masters instructor & i used to dance way back in the olden days, of the Fifties & Sixties. my training was in classical ballet (Balenchine school), tap, acrobatic, jazz & baton. i always enjoy an old movie musical w/real dancing in it. but this show is disgusting. it's a travesty & it's just plain wrong to encourage this type of so-called entertainment just for the bottom-line of Lifetime and whoever else is profiting from it. it's the children who will suffer the long-term scars from this & other shows of this ilk, such as Toddlers & Tiaras. i urge you to contact your cable company or Lifetime, TLC, & their advertisers, or anyone involved & let them know how you feel about it.
Feb 22, 2012 12:26PM
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OMG  this is so wrong!  I do not understand why Lifetime has this person on their network.  I guess scandal and abuse sells.  I had four children and a niece in dance classes in the midwest with the most patience and kindest teacher in the world.  She got awesome results from her kids. That was over twenty five years ago and this teacher is still the top of her field, Leslie rocks. Her kids have performed all over the US.

 

And you put trash on the air like this???  Shame on Lifetime.  Shame on the parents for allowing it!   

Feb 22, 2012 12:25PM
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I agree with Derek. Abuse, you can see it on the ads they run and what the hell is wrong with their mothers?  Are they that hard up to be on tv they do it through the girls?  At what cost to them
Feb 22, 2012 12:23PM
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Derek Hough is right.  This is child abuse.  No teacher should ever make a student cry.  I took my daughter off of her baseball team when she was in 6th grade and she had been on this team since first grade.  The Coach they had for years was yelling at her during the games and bring her to tears in front of her team members and other parents.  The coach wanted to teach them team playing and this is not the way to teach team playing. Yelling gets you no where!

Feb 22, 2012 12:20PM
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Since when is child abuse considered entertainment, period. Even though I have never watched the show the commercials alone are enough to make me cringe. I do not understand advertisers supporting this show, they have pulled their support from shows in the past for far less offensive reasons. Staged or not it is sending the message to children, parents young and old and anyone else who may come in contact with a child, that this it is not only ok to treat children this way but it is legal. Sixteen and pregnant sparked teenagers (in our local high schools anyway) to emulate the teenagers on that show and get pregnant, some actually hoping to be on the reality show. Just because you say the word 'staged' doesn't absolve you from responsibility. Boycotting the show and telling advertisers that you disagree with their support of this show is clearly the only way to stop this madness. Advocate for furture generations.
Feb 22, 2012 12:18PM
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Anytime a woman (no matter how young or old) has to attain notoriety with her body, she is a sex worker. Prostitute, Hooters Girl,  Dancing Tots, they're there to cater to the prurient interest and in this case it's pure kiddie porn.

 

Back in the day dancers were people like Ginger Rogers, Marge Gower, Stefanie Prowse, and of course the dancers of the ballet. It seems today that "dancing" is little different from strip routines. I'm surprised they haven't given these kids a pole!

 

Why can't a child be taught the grace and acrobatics of classical ballroom dance, swing, and so forth. It would serve just as well for training, gymnasitcs and expertise. However I doubt the sight of tots in floor-length ball gowns would be as sexually exciting as moppets in leotards.

 

It's pure sadism. People like to see pretty girls put through hell just to see them suffer.

 

 

Feb 22, 2012 12:13PM
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I cannot stand this show and do not understand how it is still on tv or how it ever got on!  I took dancing lessons from the age of 3 - 16 and this woman is not the normal dance teacher.  She is verbally abusive and a mean, nasty person - so into herself for sure.  All she does is yell and have tyrants, who wants to watch and listen to that?   Why do these girls mothers continue to let this person treat them and their daughters the way she does?  I am appalled at her behavior, so unprofessional at the least and on a number of other levels.  Evidently, it's all about the fame and tv exposure and how sad is that?  This is such a negative show!

 

Feb 22, 2012 12:13PM
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I love watching this show. I hate the way the girls are treated. If you aren't saint Maddie you are nobody.  But Abby does get results, the girls win, but at all cost. Last night was a very bad show. You need to give the good with the bad and Abby doesn't know the meaning of positive remarks unless you are Maddie.

 

These children DANCE beautifully that is the point of the show.  Many team sports have coaches just like Abby.  If the parent keep bringing the girls back then that should be the issue.

 

The Moms are another story - lol

 

Feb 22, 2012 12:11PM
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I have never watched this show, I did see the above clip. What a disgusting way to treat children, to scream at children..you know what happens when you scream at a child whom is trying their best to do something-they QUIT! This show is a disgrace..needs to be off the air. Totally unacceptable. What has happened to our society today? Nuff said.
Feb 22, 2012 12:11PM
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On 2nd thought, I'd like to add that the LIFETIME channel is finished in my household. Enough is enough--what's next Lifetime? Grandparent & Grandkids shoplifting? At least no-one would get abused unless they got caught, and even then--the authorities would have to speak with some semblance of decency and respect. You're done Lifetime !
Feb 22, 2012 12:10PM
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This Obnoxious, Fat COW - Abby is the epitome of a pathetic slob who didn't quite turn out like she had hoped.  She drowns her pity in FOOD - - and apparently Way too much of it.  And takes out her woeful agressions on these poor little girls.  But what I don't get is:  Why in the hell would any respectable parent subject themselves and expecially their kids to such abuse???  I just happened to watch this show for the 1st time last nite - like 3 episodes back-to-back.  These moronic women yell and scream back and forth in front of their kids;  and the fat cow screaming at the kids.  I can't imagine the permanent damage that is being inflicted on them.

Feb 22, 2012 12:06PM
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It's an absolute disgrace that such abuse is allowed to take place in the first place, let alone to exploit the abuse for ratings. How different is something like this from the movie "Running Man" where a prisoner runs for his life from would-be assasins in an attempt to escape, while all the while the audience watches the horror of the proceedings. It's not at all different, as a matter of fact the Dance Moms is far worse due to the fact that it's real--not an adventure flick. What the heck is going on with society these days ?
Feb 22, 2012 12:02PM
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Besides "Toddlers & Tiaras"  this is the most demeaning show on TV.  That that oversized excuse for a dance teacher and the absolutely ignorant mothers are on TV just goes to show how stupid, vapid and unintelligent the American public has become. I have watched to show, at least part of it, twice and do not understand how any mother could subject her child to such cruelty.  Several mothers show their complete lack of self respect to allow that women to abuse their children.  Lifetime should be ashamed, but then it is for the money anyway!!

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