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Toni Braxton charges kids rent

'Family Values' star ready to start training her kids for the real world

By MSN TV Feb 11, 2013 8:34AM

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Singer-turned-reality TV regular Toni Braxton charges her young sons rent to help them learn how to budget for their future. The "Braxton Family Values" star reveals she's already started training her kids for the real world by taking a minimal fee from Denim, 11, and 9-year-old Diezel's weekly allowance.

 

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But even that's too much for her boys. She explains, "I charge them rent. I give them allowance. Denim gets $15. Diezel gets $10 a week. They have to take out the trash, do all these things, but I make them pay me rent. Diezel pays $1, Denim pays $1.50. I swear to god, Diezel pays a 50 cents for utilities. Denim pays 25 cents for utilities, for cable ... I charge them! So they give me, like, $3 a week out of their allowance. I told them one day you'll have to pay rent, so I'm helping you. They get upset, '$3 a week mom? $3?!'"

 

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165Comments
Mar 2, 2013 7:22PM
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ppl can say what they want ,,at least they wont be spoiled kids with no survival skills
Feb 12, 2013 8:34PM
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I think it's a great idea. I had allowance and when I had a job away from home, I paid rent and for my personal items. My husband and his sister were never taught this. They were given everything and never taught to take care of things or respect them. When they became adults, they were lost!! people are slamming TB on here but she's got the right idea!!
Feb 12, 2013 9:38AM
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THANK YOU FOR MAKING YOUR KIDS LEARN WHAT THE REAL WORLDS LIKE
Feb 12, 2013 8:34AM
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I can't say I agree with charging a 9 + 11 year old with rent. I grew up with an allowance. A very small one. My dad marked on a piece of paper when we (my siblings and I) went to him to collect. At 13 y.o. I stopped collecting because I was getting better pay to babysit the neighbors kids. We also had chores to do. Doing the chores and receiving an allowance had nothing to do with each other. We lost the privilege of allowance as part of being grounded if we got in trouble.
Feb 12, 2013 8:21AM
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You are definitely on the right track with this.  Young kids seldom have an opportunity to learn the value of life and living at the hands of their parents and it's a good thing.  Even I say "the younger the better".  We started giving our daughter an allowance once a month, and when we first started, she had to pay for all her friend-outtings, etc., but now she has to incorporate paying her own cell phone bill out of her allowance.  It's helping her to learn responsibility and accountability.  God bless you!

Feb 12, 2013 8:18AM
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Maybe her kids can teach her how to invest and save money, instead of taking, taking, and taking from them. Everyone states she is teaching them about money, however all she is doing is teaching them how to take care of mommy when she hasn't got a way to make a living herself. It's being instilled in their head that they should take care of her and always give her their money. I've seen it happen and it continues to happen. Mommy makes them feel bad after they don't give her money, even though mommy has plenty of money to live on. That's the only thing they are learning from mommy Braxton.
Feb 12, 2013 6:43AM
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Amazing! as I continue to read through these posts it looks like there's a gauntlet waiting for TB to pass so she can get scolded. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but I read posts about her having filed for bankruptcy as though that is a reason she is not qualified to teach her kids the value of a dollar.Some of the most successful people in our history have lost millions and did also filed banruptcy.

 

People who are taking pot shots at her - back off and stop hating. She have filed for bankruptcy but she is smart enough to bounce back (she's working on it). Why not mention the positive as well? It appears she is teaching her kids so they don't have to experience what she did. We have such unforgiving people in this nation and some have already found themselves here in this post. Follow your heart TB, you're doing a great job!

Feb 12, 2013 6:31AM
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@ - Before you judge her for instilling values and preparing her kids for the real world please take a look at what the world has taught us all to do. That model does not work. It is even absurd for you to make such a comment about her putting her children out in the street. It is clear that she is using this as life lessons and not to bring harm to her precious kids. She does it with love. Come on, it is so obvious. I've watched younger generations become handicapped, weak, and fall apart at the seams when they come across a small bump in the road in life. They have a distorted view of this world.

 

I thank you Toni for being a model to the rest of our society that has deviated from old values. They are simple and they work. This is the school I came from. Give them tough love and teach them lessons we deal with in the real world  because the world is full of hard knocks. Those that judge you harshly lack your understanding and wisdom. I admire you and the show business industry needs more like you. Blessings to you.

Feb 11, 2013 4:21PM
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It’s one thing to have kids earn an allowance and learn how to manage their money. But it’s another to make them  earn an allowance to keep a roof over their heads. What happens if they don't earn that money that week - if they're sick or hit with a lot of homework - are they out in the street? Instilling in them unconditional love is also important.  Maybe if Ms. Braxton had been a less insecure person perhaps she wouldn’t have spent so much money and gone bankrupt on things she obviously did need (like those extensions in this picture?).

Feb 11, 2013 3:16PM
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"Family Values" Star? Really? Really? Bankrupt not once, but twice? Really? Many people have posted 'good for her' and 'she is teaching them responsibility as an adult and or their finances'. Really? She gives them money before they do any chores and then takes it away for bills that would normally occur during adulthood. That to me sounds more like teaching them the value of welfare, not the value of a dollar. Isn't that what welfare is? Give me my money and then I will try and pay my bills. What ever happened to earning money? The best way to learn the value of a dollar is to earn your keep first then get your allowance after you finish your chores. "Family Values"? I thought she was a singer, why not sing? Leave the "family values" stuff to 'Honey boo-boo'. 
Feb 11, 2013 3:10PM
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My parents raised my sister and I that way too. As the two eldest sisters in the house, we were made to pay rent and 10% of our paychecks. We started working at 14 years old. Had to buy our own clothes, etc. As we got older we had to buy our own cars and insurance on top of that. Today we look back and are thankful that we were taught responsibility. WE are both self sufficient and grew up to earn high incomes. Our three youngest brothers were spoiled. They had everything paid for and never had to contribute a dime. Im not sure why though. The youngest is 31 today and still lives at home. He is a career student. Has no bills. Parents pay for everything. He wont contribute anything to the house. He wont get a job. He is basically a 5 year old living in a 31 year old body. Sad.....So yes I agree with what TB is doing.
Feb 11, 2013 3:03PM
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ah, who cares. really. At least these kids spend less on candy and save $ on dentist trips.  OH wait.  i am an dentist bad for my business.
Feb 11, 2013 2:55PM
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It's a good lesson, which she needs to follow herself, since she has gone bankrupt TWICE.
Feb 11, 2013 2:47PM
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I give Toni Braxton huge kudos on this one.  Most stars and their children are so out of touch with reality it is sickening.   I wish I would have done this to my kids in fact!   
Feb 11, 2013 2:44PM
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I just ADORE her !! She's such a rockin Mother !! God bless ! She's raising some wonderful children!!
Feb 11, 2013 2:40PM
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My mama, gave me .25 cent to vacuum each room and if she was my Mama, I would be -$3 down.  Not good Mama!  I will be on welfare at that rate! 
Feb 11, 2013 2:39PM
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Since I grew up on a farm, I was taught to contribute, whether it was feeding the animals, pulling weeds in the garden, mowing lawn, garbage, household chores, etc.- mind you I am still in my early 20's. I had more chores to do, but because of contributing that way, I never had to pay rent until I was 18. Having a child of my own, I don't expect her to pay rent when she's 9- because I personally believe she still needs to be a kid. Sure she will help more with household chores, feeding her pony when time comes, but I don't expect her to pay rent, to me being a child is more important until being a late teen. Yes, I did have jobs in high school too, and I am no debt either, the values of hard work did pay off even though I wasn't paying rent.
Feb 11, 2013 2:36PM
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Ms. Braxton:
       I applaud you for the morals and values you are planting in your boys. This way I am sure you won't have to worry about your boys, being the typical Hollywood brat on drugs, an alcoholic, or murderer,. Again great job.
Feb 11, 2013 2:27PM
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I see nothing wrong with this, when I was a teenager and going to school and working part time, my parents charged me and my older brother rent as long as we were under their roof and working we had to contribute to the household. It taught us to be  responsible young men and gave us a valuable lesson in entering the adult world.
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